I usually come off as annoying and stupid to most every girl I meet.... :ohcrap: And its really starting to piss me off :banghead: How the **** do I stop it? I dont even really act annoying...Im just myself....
Try being cocky. Works really well. Confident, and funny. Make fun of
girls, and they'll think you're confident. That hot chick walks by, don't
gawk, just make fun of her, find something weird in her outfit, etc...
works like a charm.
Doesn't hurt to be good looking, either.
Or to be driving in something thats either hip or old school. And I am not freaking talking about Chevy Luminas!
Is this with new girls that you meet? if so just think about how you act with girls which are your friend and act like that with the girls you meet and like.
What exactly do you do when you see a girl?
IMO mahalaleel i think it would be better to make fun of the girl when at least she knows your name...
yeah just be confident go up to her and start talking to her. and what is the worest that can happen she thinks tyou are a dork oh well there is a lot more better looking girls out there :thumbs:
Just be yourself and the right Girl will respect you for it :thumbs:
Oh, and I'll move this :ohcrap: :banghead: :thumbs:
do everything you dont do now?
lol actuallly i have similar problems...but seriously, confidence is the biggest thing i find that helps.
Yeah, same here...I started talking more in class near the end of the year, and they would talk to me more, that's when I started to make poke fun at them...In a nice way
i meant dont do anything you do now lol
but it works still
yeah, getting to know them helps - file away tidbits of shit that they may not think you listen to, and suprise them someday that you remember it lol
I gotta agree with what most say, i usually go for the 'weird' girls (as i'm told) so some of them it doesnt matter what you say (dont go overboard), most like to laugh to, so it helps if your funny. Everyone has their own 'special' characteristic, once you find yours then you can use that more to your advantage :thumbs: Good luck and go get 'em (get 'er done).
I dunno...I've never really noticed what the hell I do...what other people said is right though. I've found that, once you get to know them, poking a little bit of fun at them seems to work well. :thumbs:
If you come off as annoying, then you're trying too hard. Remember, girls always want what we can't have. :wink2:
what i've learned is that confidence = key to this kind of success. Just
have confidence in yourself, and good things will happen.
I also like to make the women i associate with laugh...they always like a good laugh, and someone who's funny. :thumbs:
For you, pull out your wallet... :wink2:
Sorry, no money here :laughing:
Money ain't everything. Confidence is the biggest thing you need. Don't be afraid to walk up to her and introduce yourself or crack a smile at her. Try it and sometimes they come around to wanting you but thats another story for another time.
or when ur walkin by an shes lookin jus wink ive done it before an it jus makes a girl's day because for that little bit of time u made her feel special an thats all giirls want is to feel special an wanted its jus like my dad told me jus make a women feell special an shes all yours
u know, ive always done the same thing, and it has always worked.
just be yourself. thats how i got my girlfriend.... of course, thing is, im usually the cocky funny guy in every group that is the top attention whore and im never wrong, but, according to my female friends (and my gf), i can actually be the geekiest of them all..... all that cuz im really good with computers and i collect yugioh cards (maybe 20 is too old to collect those.... and action figures..... and scale model cars.....)
but i always end up making them laugh.. in fact.
how i managed to "win" my girlfriend:
me: (sending an e-mail) hey stupid, i really liked u a lot. how bout u give me a call on friday without any excuses? bye.
and that was it..... tomorrow is our 8th month together. longest ive ever lasted.
:clap: Good for you Inygknok you have shown others what humor can do to win a girl.
Ya being funny is a huge advantage, I have never met a girl which didn't like a guy who could make her laugh.
There's a pickup line I've never heard...might try it sometime... :hi: :smoke:
It also kinda depends on the type of girl it is, some have better senses of humor then others, and like different things. If you dont know the girl, then try something, if it doesnt work then your not losing anything.
Then I think Ive found my problem. Most of the girls around my school are bitchy :banghead: There are a couple that Im friends with that arent though.
Theres ways to get around 'bitchy-ness' though lol, i just dont know how. All i can say is try different things (some things mentioned above), it cant hurt to try.
Yeah, I actually havent found a way around that either. They always seem to like to date the asshole guys. :rolleyes:
I know, alot of girls seem to go for that type, i guess thats the easy way around the problem :laughing: .
slippy give us a sample convo with u and a bitchy hot girl, and we'll analyze and help u out.
yeah that'd b funny lol :thumbs:
no im serisou tho,
That is a good idea, we can get a good jolly off it too, because one of us has to sound like a chick :laughing:
Grab your balls (ok, not literally) and be a man. Be confident, walk up to
her knowing that she would like nothing more than to throw herself at you,
and then talk to her, make her smile and laugh, in the words of the
"I wait till he buy that wine, then I creep up from behind
and ask you what your intrests are, who you be with,
Things that make you smile, what numbers to dial"
This approach has worked for me;
Just walk up to a girl and ask her, "what do you like more coffee or ice cream?" She'll probably laugh like your crazy and ask why, Then you say "Because Id like to know where we are going this saturday, cold stone or starbucks." She'll probably say something like "well I hadn't planned on either" or " I don't even know you" Thats when you say, "Well thats the point to get to know eachother. Remember I don't know you either, You might end up being a long lost cousin or an axe murderer, I don't know....But Id like to find out." She'll probably say "I don't think so, thanks for the offer" or something like that Then you say "Well, why not? If its because you don't know me, Like I sadi, I don't know you either, thats the point of a first date, If its not that then It has to be because you don't like the way I look, and that would make you shallow. And to tell you the truth, you don't look like the shallow type."
its pretty much a done deal at that point
let's give this man an award!
Haha, Id like to thank the academy.... :laughing:
Damn, that was pretty good :laughing:
LOL. Thats freaking hilarious. Just whatever you do, don't try pick-up lines, maybe Zalight's will work, but the rest of em.....ive seen my friends hit the wall many times. Confidence is hard to muster up, like he said "Grab your balls" and just do it, what's the worst that can happen? Sure, you'll be moping around for a week or two. But, you'll get over it.
Damn lol, you couldnt of posted that BEFORE i went to the Festival (where they play music and have fireworks twice a week), theres plenty of hot girls there, it'd be worth a try. That was good :clap:
Wow, I like that.
ooo the girl likes it, i got some pretty lame-o pick up lines too, lol but
im to pussy to try em. that was REAAALY good tho
also say something other than ice cream, i work at coldstone and im a manager and we got enough business :P PLEASE dont torture ur local coldstone, TCBY is good :P
haha dude that's AWESOME! :thumbs:
We don't have TCBY in the area :hi:
only in the rest areas on the NYS Thruway. :laughing:
hehe, nice going zalight.
anyhow. tbh, my gf is one of those rich spoiled bitches in school that think that popularity is everything.... and fashion clothes, etc. (completely the opposite from me). still, the bitchyness is mostly due to the teen-rebel-bullshit that women go through during their teens.... just like us men go through a period where we do stupid stunts to impress girls for no apparent reason.... that and no more kisses from our moms cuz we're big boys now.
the whole key to winning those types of girls is, not just having very good self confidence, but also the ability to be yourself and make it look good. show them u are better than wat they think. show them that being bitches isnt going to scare u off. its something they do to intimidate a guy and make themselves feel superior, therefore making u feel u arent good enough for them. so make THEM feel that THEY arent good enough for YOU.
how do u think i make my gf calm down everytime she acts like a tough bitch? :mrgreen:
:cussing: jk.. Exactly like I said, we want what we cant have. But don't over do it. :wink2:
Slip, maybe if you stop lookin for the girls that are taken, you wouldn't
have a problem. :wink2:
Well, the way I "won" my gf is basically being funny, stupid, honest, confindent and caring. Though I'm still wondering why she said yes, because I'm way out of her league...
Don't you mean she's way out of your league?
Damn, i've had a few times when i've thought like that (her being WAY to good) lol. I'm not as confident as i should be but i'm all of the rest (funny and stupid go hand-in-hand).
Well I dont look for the girls that are taken actually. The only reason Im not INCREDIBLY confident, is because, like you said, most of the girls are out of my league. Like, theyre the girls youll find at the mall in Abercrombie, and Hollister stores, and Im the guy youll find in like GearZone, and Hot Topic, and working up the hood of a car with grease and oil all over me. Usually girls dont think working on cars is to hot :laughing: :oops:
By the sounds of it, you need to get yourself a country girl :laughing: .
Too bad I dont live in the country though :banghead: :laughing:
Oh damn, then theres a problem :wink2: . I myself dont live in the country but theres country close to me :laughing:
sometimes i wonder if WE are out of our very own leagues.....
getting all philosophical on us, eh? :ticking:
I though i'd have the same problem. I mean my gf doesn't know anything about cars but if she finds me under the hood of a car she likes it cause she knows it something I like to do and doesn't care if I'm all dirty but I should still go in and clean up before doing something with her. And I don't live in the country and shes not a country girl.
lol Logan you don't act stupid or annoying your just being yourself.
It always feels like that though.
When I meet guys I either act REALLLY hyper or reallllly shy. It sucks but they seem to like it!! So don't worry about it. Besides first impressions arent everything!!! :mrgreen:
Unless she's rich.
Then you'll have Aruba all over again.
But if she's hot, it's okay.
Then you can talk to her all you want.
Call her Clarice if you want.
okay, thats not creepy.
*super sarcasm* :laughing:
teggy its about time u changed your title to CF's Resident Dr. Evil lol
The only rule is just be yourself.
By not playing games, she will figure out who you really are, and if she likes that, then you are in business.