You know what a good date spot is?
After you get them to agree to go out, They'll ask where to. Be like "I don't know, I was thinking somewhere we could just talk and hang out...How about the park?"
"Qui est-ce que c'est?"
"Yeah, it'll be fun! Honestly when was the last time you went to a park? like 10?"
Then You put your little scheme in action! Parks are good for a couple reasons, one you could bust the romantic lover type and read poetry under a tree (if you have been castrated at some point) or you could do what I do. Find out what sport they are into. If they play softball, bring a ball and two gloves, play catch, it'll give you something to do while you talk to her, plus it'll show you care about what she likes to do. Dinner sucks for this because the whole time you have food shoved in your mouth, so you can't really talk, plus its just so passe, everyone does the dinner and a movie thing.
Then you could always just sit on the swings and talk, or sit on the jungle gym. This will bring up fond memories of childhood, she'll say something like "I havent swung in forever" then you could bring out an amusing anecdote from when you were a kid and make her laugh.
Another reason the whole sport thing is good is because you could do a couple things, you could do the playful competition thing where you challenge eachother in a very flirtatious sort of way, and then you could just barely lose (or if you suck, really lose) and then bust a "damn! you're good, Im going to go back to the gym, then we have to rematch!"
BOOM!! You just closed on a second date.
Dating is all a game. And im a player....